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Friday, August 04, 2006
Topsy-turvy world.

I have often wondered why we are asked to focus so much on what is wrong and so lil' on what is right. I think that if we changed our focus & concentrate on what is right, we would have a much better outcome.
Imagine your teacher hands back your test paper and he/she says:"Let's go over the questions you answered correctly." they might say, for instance,"Kim, that was a brillant answer you gave to question no. 3" or "Brian, no. 6 was some of your finest work ever." I cant help but think I would leave that class with a lil' spring in my step.
I love this conversation between Alice and the Mad Hatter, excerpted from Lewis
Carroll's Alice in Wonderland:

Alice: Where I come from, people study what they are not good at in order to do what they are good at.

Mad Hatter: We only go around in circles in Wonderland but we always end up where we started. Would you mind explaining yourself?

Alice: Well, grown-ups tell us to find out what we did wrong and never do it again.

Mad Hatter: That's odd! It seems to me that in order to find out something,you have to study it. And when you study it, you should become better at it. why should you want to be better at something and then never do it agian? But please continue.

Alice: Nobody ever tells us to study the right things we do. We're only supposed to learn from the wrong things. But we are permitted to study the right things other people do. And sometimes we'reeven told to copy them.

Mad Hatter: That's cheating!

Alice: You're quite right, Mr Hatter. I do live in a topsy-turvy world. It seems like I have to do something wrong first, in order to learn from what not to do. And then by not doing what Im not supposed to do, perhaps I'll be right. But I'd rather be right the first time, wouldnt you?


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    I don't love you.

    Well, when you go
    Don't ever think I'll make you try to stay
    And maybe when you get back
    I'll be off to find another way

    And after all this time that you still owe
    You're still the good-for-nothing I don't know
    So take your gloves and get out
    Better get out
    While you can

    When you go
    Would you even turn to say
    "I don't love you, like I did, yesterday"

    Sometimes I cry so hard from pleading
    So sick and tired of all the needless beating
    But baby when they knock you
    Down and out
    It's where you oughta stay

    And after all the blood that you still owe
    Another dollar's just another blow
    So fix your eyes and get up
    Better get up
    While you can
    Whoa, whooa

    When you go
    Would you even turn to say
    "I don't love you, like I did, yesterday"

    Well come on, come on

    When you go
    Would you have the guts to say
    "I don't love you, like I loved you, yesterday"

    I don't love you, like I loved you, yesterday

    I don't love you, like I loved you, yesterday

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